value

Dutch dudes touring around barcelona! || Vlog 010

Wadup,

At the moment I’m back in workmode again so you’ll probably will
see the normal hustle vlogs by the end of next week, (meer…)

Getting married || Vlog 05

Sup sup,

It’s been awhile. I’ve been busy with school and was sick the last few weeks.
Never been sick for so long it kind of freaked me out. (meer…)

Stop lying to yourself and be egotistical!!!

At our core I think all humans are good, but I also think alot of people are lying to themselves and because of that are leaving a whole lot of tools in the ‘shed’ that they could use too further there goals. (meer…)

What the power of habit and self awareness taught me!

Most people who read alot of self development theory probably already know this, but I wanted to say this just in case.

When we fail at something most of the time it’s not because of a single great event, but  multiple small decisions we took beforehand. Like multiple domino bricks falling over to create something.
(meer…)

Offering value by becoming more valueble!

Sup peeps,

It’s the last day of my offering value awareness week. I’m kind of tired from sitting behind a computer or laptop for five days straight for atleast 12 hours so shutting this thing down after I post this will be heavenly. (meer…)

Offering value & making money ||vblog(3/5)

Wadup,

Rogier here. It’s day number three of the offering value awareness week.
I’m sorry, but I really need to rush making this blog I’m late for a couple of
other things.  (meer…)

If you don’t think you’re the sh*t you’re not going to get women period point blank!!!!!! tales of entitlement.

Waddup rogier here,

It’s 0:20 AM on a Saturday and I’m sitting in front of my pc writing this blog because I’m in the zone and can’t stop working lol. I was sick the past week which really sucked, because I couldn’t get anything done; but I’m back at full throttle. I’ve got a lot of project I’m working , but you’ll see those in the future. I’m also going to try to give a more clearer view of the stuff I’m doing by using photo’s and video’s in the future, but that’s it for the update let’s get to the main topic.

Today I wanted to get back to the dating side of things and talk about subject that a lot of men have trouble with called entitlement. So what is entitlement? It’s basically the feeling of belief that you deserve something. When picking up a girl or when you’re in a relationship with a girl and there is a lack of entitlement present this equals death, because subconsciously you’re going to try and mess it up.

The first and worst example where a lack of entitlement can mess with your dating live is when you see a girl you find attractive and you don’t even walk up to talk to her out of a fear of rejection. While you’re busy trying to not get rejected you are rejecting yourself!!!

The second example I want to give you is when you are in a relationship and because of your lack of entitlement you’re always afraid that you’re going to lose your girl, because of this you’ll be afraid to get into arguments and everytime she leaves you’ll be paranoid that some guy will take her from you.
It could’ve been a beautiful relationship, but instead because of your own beliefs you’re trapped in a pitiful co-dependent relationship that will never grow into what it should be.

The third example is the where you met a girl and you where killing it. Everything that came out of your mouth was pure gold, everything you did was smoother than it ever was you were on fire! Let’s say you went to the bathroom and all of a sudden you lose this state and you go back and you see she’s talking to a other guy who is also in the zone, got arms as big as your entire body and is basically what you thought you were when you were in the zone. When you have a lack of entitlement it’s very likely that you won’t even go back to them to fight for the interaction you just had and as a result lose the girl.

Everybody has this lack of entitlement in different fields so it’s not something to be ashamed of and
if you haven’t been told that you are awesome in these fields from being young it’s really hard to take on these beliefs, but it is possible to raise your entitlement.

So start recognizing when you feel like you have a lack of entitlement in a situation and make the decision to go against it. I’ll get in depth a little bit more later but this is it for now.

PEAce!!!!!

You drain people mentally and physically and you don’t even know it!!!!

Yo,

This Rogier coming at you with a new arcticle containing stuff I deal with out of my awesome life haha. I haven’t posted a blog in a while now and wasn’t even planning on posting this one today because I’m kind busy updating my vlog format, preparing for the launch of my new series of vlogs, school & putting a training together with some friends of mine for a company, but I kind of felt the need to put one up ( cheers for inconsistency haha). Here it is though enjoy!

When you are busy designing your own lifestyle you’re going to have to deal with other people you’re going to need their help or maybe you’re the one helping them. If we look at a macro level what occurs when people interact is the exchange of value.

Value to someone is what he believes that is important for him. Value can manifest itself in different ways for example let’s say your car is broken and someone you know knows how to fix it then that person will have value in your eyes. I call this tangible value, but you can also have non-tangible value a good example of non-tangible value is social value. When you are hanging out with your friends and you are making jokes, or when you have a problem and you need someone to listen to and you are there to listen you provide social value.

When you have a good relationship with someone its always based on an exchange of value. There are also situations that can occur where someone is only taking value and isn’t adding value. This is what we call value leeching. To be around someone that’s leeching value is mentally and physically draining. You kind of get an icky feeling when you are around them. Most of the time they don’t even know that they are doing it.

The reason I made this blog isn’t to get you to become paranoid and always be asking yourself if you are giving value in every situation, but to make it clear that when you are of value a lot more doors will open for you. People will be more willing to help you with your own goals. You might not even have direct value for them, but the fact that you are providing value in some area will make them comfortable.