It’s been awhile since I brought out a new video. Feels good to be blabbering in front
of the camera and get all those thoughts out of my mind and on video.
Even though I haven’t been recording I still wrote a few articles the last few
weeks so check them out if you have the time.
For today’s video the theme is limits. I’ll probaly be uploading another video
about this subject next week since I feel like knowing your limits is everything.
When you know those and your strenghts you know what you can rely on to
build the lifestyle you want.
So here’s the video.
Btw for the non auditive people viewing this is what I was reading
in the beginning of the video.
It is honorable for a man to admit his fears, resistance, and edge of practice.
It is simply true that each man has his limit, his capacity for growth, and his destiny.
But it is dishonorable for him to lie to himself or others about his real place.
He shouldn’t pretend he is more enlightened than he is—nor should he stop short of
his actual edge.
The more a man is playing his real edge, the more valuable he is as good company
for other men, the more he can be trusted to be authentic and fully present.
Where a man’s edge is located is less important than whether he is actually
living his edge in truth, rather than being lazy or deluded.
So I’m sitting on the couch again writing while I try to figure out what I’ll be writing about and….
I got it hahaha. When I was young and I was busy with something challenging. I’d always think about how great it would be to complete it and the feeling after. I didn’t notice untill two years ago, but the day after I would feel good, but there would also be a unpleasant feeling creeping up on me. The same would happen when I failed at something. I would feel really bored.
A few years ago I got really facinated with Sherlock Holmes and the stories written about him and heard that he was based the character on a teacher Sir Arthur Conan Doyle (the writer) used to have who could some of the things Sherlock Holmes did to a way lesser degree though. After learning that you could train your mind like that I started reading a lot about the method of loci a.k.a Sherlocks famous mind palace ( I’ll put a video under the blog that explains what it is) and how it all starts with being mindfull.
So what is mindfullness it’s the state your in where your awereness hightens. This for example happens when you focus on something, but most of the time people aren’t in a state of mindfulness. They’re in a state of mindlesness, because it puts less strain on your brain.
A example of this would be driving a car. When you start learning to drive a car it’s really hard and you have to concentrate on every little thing you do. As time goes by you gather a lot of experience and you start to do stuff on auto pilot. In other words you don’t have to be as mindfull to everything you do while your driving.
It’s a really handy thing, but it’s also the reason boredom comes up. If you would write all the actions you do for a month you’d probaly find out that most of the stuff you do everyday is the same and a result of being on autopilot. This means you rarely do something that exites or challenges you.
True happiness comes from being engaged in something according to the book flow by Mihaly Csikszenmihalyi. I thinks there is some truth this.
What do you think?
An example of the use of the memory palace from BBC’s Sherlock