Month: juli 2014

So I walked up to this girl, but what now?

Wadup peepz,

Not having the best week of my life right now. My laptop and computer broke down my cellphone is tripping out and I got tons of deadlines, but C’est la vie! They’re not going away by moaning about them. I’m still bummed out though because I really wanted to post a vlog today, but yeah Let’s get on with the blog.

Today I’m diving a little bit into the dating stuff and I’ll start this off by saying
the biggest reason why most men don’t approach women is because they don’t know what to say so I thought let me make a blog about it so you guys can realize that knowing what to say is the least of your problems and you can work on more important things lol.

So let me give you some background information about myself I used to be one of the shyest kids you would’ve ever met. The only people I could talk normally with was my family and my friends. If anybody else would talk to me I would clam up or talk so soft that nobody could understand me. I even got nervous if I had to greet people I didn’t know. With that kind of history you don’t exactly become don juan.

So here is a piece of info what helped me a lot:

  1. The reason you don’t know what to say is because you are filtering your words. Lower the bar everything you say is acceptable.
  2. It doesn’t matter what you say what matters is your vibe when you say it.
  3. Women will find everything you say interesting, because they want to know what you find interesting.

To hammer this down I leave you with an example of this. A few weeks ago I went out and I met this girl and we were playing truth or dare in the club and she dared me to go to a girl surrounded by four guys and tell her that I had to take a dump. So the first thing I thought was these guys are going to kick my ass, but the doormen were nearby so I thought what the hell Let’s do this. I walked up to the girl and it felt like everyone around me stopped what they were doing and started to look at what I was doing. Funny how in these kind of situations it always feels like everybody is watching you. So I tapped the girl and said I had to take a dump and I asked her if she hated it when it that happened in the club. She started to laugh and we started to hit it off. Funny enough the other girl got jelous and tried to pull me away from her haha. So you never know!

Well that’s all for now


How you can learn from people who don’t know anything!!!!



Sitting on the couch in my apartment again while I’m typing this blog. I wanted to write a post because I realized I’m really stuborn when it comes to accepting peoples help and taking their advice.
What I noticed too is that when I actually listen to advice most of the time it really helps. There are sometimes that using somebody’s advice can make matters worst, but that isn’t the people that gave you’re their advice their fault. The fault lies with you not being able to filter out the necessary information that you can benefit from.

Learning from successes
This is the easiest way of taking advice where you can just follow their example or use there principles and incorporate it into your own life.

Learning from failure
A while ago someone I knew told me about someone who tried to give him advice about financial issues with his company, but he thought he shouldn’t give advice  because he used to have his own company before it bankrupted. Yeah sure he made mistakes, but that doesn’t deny the fact that he build his own company. Try to find out where he went the wrong direction and learn from it.

Learning from the process
Sometimes you will get advice from people who haven’t achieved anything, but that doesn’t mean there advice has no value. The process of those people could inspire you to do more. If he’s working this hard I can do that too, If he can endure so much pain I can’t quit her.
Besides inspiriting you to work harder it can also give you different means that can help you develop or better your own process in doing things.

Well that’s all I have to say for today



You are being fooled and you don’t even know it!!!!


Rogier here comming at you with a new vlog. I’m posting this vlog a little a head of schedual, because I’ll be busy attending
seminars the entire weekend whoop whoop!!  It’s been a while since I put up a new vlog so I wanted to
make it a little different. I’ve been basically experimenting with video programs for three days and learned
a lot of new cool stuff. Well here it is.


Well I hope you enjoyed the vlog. Still working on getting the public speaking and editing down, but
i’ll get there. By the way if you like my blog about never impressing girls you’re going to flip when I
bring out my next vlog. It’s about dating and will probaly be an eyeopener for a lot of guys who have
trouble finding the nerves to approach women. Look out for it in two week!!!!

PS. A few months ago I watched an documentary about frank gehry a famous architect and he said
that the biggest achievements were done in teams. I’m beginning to notice that a lot of the ideas I
have in my head I can’t bring to live because I need another pair of hands. With this in mind I’m looking
for a assistant for the following five weeks. If you are interested hit me up on

Well that’s all for now